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Graves Family History

THE GRAVES FAMILY IN IRELAND

Like many Irish families who emerge from the mists of time at some stage in recorded history the Graves family in Ireland seems to be derived from an English branch, the Graves of Mickleton in Gloucestershire. A Colonel Graves commanded a regiment of horse in the army of the Parliament and volunteered for service in Ireland in 1647. As a result of the Cromwellian Settlement the Graves family acquired lands and later public office at Limerick.

The Graves family was especially notable for its scholars, writers and divines and I have selected a number of these shown here on a truncated family tree. These were and are the family of Robert von Ranke Graves, the poet and novelist - two of whose nephews now live in Co. Cork. Trinity College Dublin, seen here, was the creative centre associated with many of the Graves family in Ireland which included professors and mathematicians of the College.

Descended from Colonel Graves, who incidentally later turned Royalist, according to Robert in his classic autobiography "Good~bye to All That" (1929) was Reverend James Graves "an accurate and well read scholar with a taste for poetry" as described by Alfred Perceval Graves in his autobiography "To Return to All That" published in 1931 which was in parts in the nature of a reply to his son’s book.

Reverend James Graves’s issue included Reverend Thomas Graves, Dean of Connor and Reverend Richard Graves, Dean of Ardagh. Thomas was a good scholar and retired at an advanced age to Cove Cottage, Kinsale where his grandson Reverend Charles Graves, later Bishop of Limerick, visited him as a boy and found him "gardening by day and still studying till a late hour at night".

Richard Graves, Dean of Ardagh, his younger brother, became Regius Professor of Divinity at Trinity College Dublin in 1819 and his work on the Pentateuch remained a theologians’ classic for many years. A collection of his sermons and other spiritual works were also published. Their father had died while straitened means. He died in 1829 and is buried with other members of his family in the old churchyard of Donnybrook, in Dublin, and he receives mention in Blacker’s Brief Sketches of Booterstuwn and Donnybrook on page 39.

His son, Richard Hastings Graves was a theological writer and became Rector of Brigown in the diocese of Cloyne. He prepared for publication with a personal memoir, the complete edition of his father’ s works in 1840 and had also published many of his own treatises on Church and theological subjects. He died in 1877.

His brother, Dr. Robert James Graves, whom Robert von Ranke Graves referred to as the man "who invented the disease called after him", was also a student of Trinity College Dublin taking a complete Arts and Medical course. He furthered his medical studies in Edinburgh and on the Continent. His faculty for languages was such that he was taken for a German in Austria and consequently imprisoned as a spy. He travelled with Turner, the painter, for months in the Swiss Alps. The crew of a ship in which they were sailing from Genoa to Sicily were about to desert them in a storm, when Graves seized an axe and stove in the lifeboat. Then taking command he repaired the pumps from the leather of his own boots and so saved the ship.

He became a prominent doctor in Dublin on his return there in 1821 and introduced new clinical methods to the Meath Hospital and the Park Street school of medicine which he helped found. He was appointed Professor to the Institutes of medicine in the Irish College of Physicians and wrote essays and gave lectures on physiological topics. His "Clinical Lectures" were published in 1843 and he was president of the Irish College of Physicians in 1843 and 1844. He was elected a fellow of the Royal Society in 1849. He corresponded with old pupils all over the world and continued as an inspired teacher until his death in 1853.

He left his library - worth £30,000 even at that time - to Trinity College, Dublin, and failed to patent his invention of having the hand denoting seconds fixed on to a watch. Instead, a Dublin firm of watchmakers to whom he casually prescribed this device for his own personal assistance made a fortune out of selling watches with second hands all over the world.

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Their cousin Reverend James Graves (1815-1886) was born in the city of Kilkenny and became a famous archaeologist. He, too, graduated from Trinity College Dublin and became a clergyman in the diocese of Ossory. Graves became interested in archaeology and published the results of his researches in the Kilkenny area. He helped found the Kilkenny Archaeological Society for the preservation, examination and illustration of ancient monuments of Irish history, manners, customs and arts especially in the county ‘and city of Kilkenny. The inaugural meeting of this society was held in May 1849 and its first publication appeared in 1850.

Graves became curate at Inisnag about 8 miles from Kilkenny and he continue to publish an research on behalf of the royal Historical and Archaeological Association of Ireland which had evolved from the Kilkenny Archaeological Society, until his death in 1886.

To return to the direct line of Robert von Ranke Graves Thomas Graves, Dean of Connor's issue was John Crosbie Graves (1776-1835) who lived at 12 Fitzwilliam Square, Dublin. He became a barrister and married the aristocratic Helena Perceval and the Perceval name was adopted widely in this genealogical line. She also assisted her husband's career and shortly after their marriage John Crosbie Graves was a inter a Commissioner of Bankru tc in 1806 By Lord Redesdale who was a Patron of Helena Perceval. Graves’s career prospered and he became Chief Police Magistrate for Dublin from 1821. He was active politically and canvassed for Lord Beresford in Waterford where Graves was a landlord.

The eldest son of this union was John Thomas Graves (1806-1870), jurist and mathematician. He distinguished himself at Trinity College Dublin in both science and classics and was a class-fellow and friend of Sir William Rowan Hamilton. He then took an M.A. at Oxford University and was called to the English and Irish bars. He practised on the western circuit for a short time when he was appointed Professor of Jurisprudence in London University College. His lectures on Roman, canon, and international law were published. He also contributed biographies of four Roman jurists for Smiths’ "Dictionary of Greek and Roman Biography".

He became a keen mathematician and made discoveries in logarithms which were confirmed by Sir William Rowan Hamilton, leading to further discoveries by Hamilton. In 1839 Graves was elected a member of the Royal Society, and other societies.

He became an assistant poor-law Commissioner and in 1847 one of the poor-law inspectors of England and Wales. He donated a large mathematical library to University College, London, and died at Cheltenham in 1870.

John’s sister, Clarissa Graves (1808-71) was a minor poetess and is notable for marrying Leopold von Ranke, the German historian, thereby establishing the first von Ranke connection with the Graves family. She is represented as a poetess in Main's "Treasury of English Sonnets" (1871) and in Solby’s "Coronal of English Verse" (1880), though much of her verse was circulated privately.

Rev. Robert Perceval Graves (1810-1893) was born at 12 Fitzwilliam Square, the second son of John Crosbie Graves. He too went to Trinity College Dublin where he obtained a Classical Scholarship and graduated with a first gold medal in classics. He moved to the Lake District and was ordained for the ministry and served at Abbleside, Lake Windermere for many years. He wrote verse and became friends with Wordsworth, Southey, Hartley Coleridge and other members of the Lake School of Poetry.

In 1864 his brother Charles, Dean of the Chapel Royal, induced him to settle in Dublin and he gave assistance to Charles, becoming secretary to the Aid Society. When Charles was appointed Bishop of Limerick in 1866, Robert was appointed Sub- Dean of the Chapel Royal. From the foundation of Alexandra College in 1866 he became its constant supporter, and it was, he said, the chief object of his public life. For nearly 30 years he was closely identified with it, first as professor of Latin, a post which he filled for many years. He was conjointly secretary of the College and later became vice-warden and a member of the College Council until his death. In 1892 in a pamphlet "Suggestions on the Subject of University Degrees for Women" he proposed that Trinity College should admit female students.

He wrote a three volume biography of Sir William Rowan Hamilton which was well received and led to his being awarded an honorary doctorate by Trinity College Dublin.

A few years after he had returned to Dublin, in 1867 he was invited by the Committee of "The Afternoon Lectures on Literature and Art" series to deliver a lecture on Wordsworth and the Lake Country. These lectures were held in the Theatre of the Royal College of Science then housed at 51 St. Stephen’s Green, now the headquarters of the Office of Public Works. He recounted how he had first come to the Lake Distnct 017 England in the year 1833 and became acquainted with the distinguished persons who then inhabited it.

He describes the honest and simple folk of Westmoreland and then tells us of Wordsworth’s many Irish friends such as Sir William Rowan Hamilton, and of Wordsworth’s visit to Ireland:

His one short tour in Ireland was unfortunately, as I have heard him record with regret, made in the carriage-and-four of his friend Mr Marshall, and therefore supplied him with few new images and little motive to write. It embraced Dublin with the Observatory, Killarney, and the Giant’s Causeway. Attached as he was to the English Lake Land, of which his poetry is the atmosphere, his spirit the genius loci, he yet admitted that for concentration of beauty, romantic, fantastic, and luxuriant, it had nothing to show equal to the group of the Killarney lakes.

In a letter written soon after his return to England, Wordsworth said, "If I were a younger man, and could prevail upon an able artist to accompany me, there are few things I should like better than giving a month or six weeks to explore the county of Kerry only". Graves explores the realms of Wordsworth’s poetry and philosophy and defends him against the charge of pantheism, concluding

You are many of you going soon to the country. His poems, if you study them aright, will help you, better than a novel, to receive all its best influences. Take your WORDSWORTH with you.

James Perceval Graves (1811 - 1882) kept up the legal tradition becoming Crown Solicitor for Ireland. Charles Graves was also born at 12 Fitzwilliam Square in 1812 and later became Bishop of Limerick and a noted mathematician. He studied at Trinity College Dublin and won a scholarship in Classics. Intended originally for the army he became an expert swordsman and rider, he played cricket for Trinity and later in life did much boating and fly-fishing.

He graduated as a gold medalist in mathematics and physics. He became a fellow of T.C.D. and in 1843 he was appointed professor of mathematics. He was made Dean of the Chapel Royal, Dublin Castle in 1860, and was appointed Bishop of Limerick in 1866 and held that office for 33 years until his death in 1899. He had been elected a member of the Royal Irish Academy in 1837 and subsequently held various officerships. He was elected a Fellow of the Royal Society in 1880 and received the honorary degree of D.C.L. from Oxford University in 1881

In 1841 Graves published an original mathematical work and he embodied further discoveries in his lectures and in papers read before and published by the Royal Irish Academy. He was a collegue of Sir William Rowan Hamilton and on the latter's death Graves gave a presidential parygeric containing a valuable account both of Hamilton’s scientific labours and of his literary attainments.

Graves was very interested in Irish antiquarian subjects. He discovered the key to the ancient Irish Oghan script which appeared as inscriptions on cromlechs and other stone monuments.

Graves also prompted the government to publish the old Irish Brehan Laws. His suggestion was adopted and he was appointed a member of the Commission to do this.

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A gentleman and a scholar he was well respected as Bishop of Limerick. He and the Catholic Bishop were on the very best of terms. They cracked Latin jokes at each other, discussed fine points of scholarship and were unclerical enough not to take their religious differences too seriously. Bishop O’Dwyer had once joked at the size of Bishop Graves’ family of nine and Graves warmly retorted with the text about the blessedness of the man who has his quiver full of arrows, to which O’Dwyer replied "The ancient Jewish Quiver only held six"

Bishop Charles Graves had married Selina Cheyne whose father was Physician General to the forces in Ireland.

In the 1850’s Dr. Graves took the lease of the Bland residence in Parknasilla, Co. Kerry, as a summer home, and this house became a wonderful holiday home for many of the Graves clan over the next 40 years.

In 1892 the Bishop bought out the lease of the house and 114 acres of land, including islands. In 1894 he sold it to the Southern Hotels Company which was building up a chain of hotels in Kerry. The Bishop’s House became the first Southern hotel in Parknasilla until it was superseded by the adjacent new hotel of the now Great Southern Hotel chain.

In the next generation Bishop Graves’ eldest son was Alfred Perceval Graves (1846 - 1931). He was also born at 12 Fitzwilliam Square, Dublin. In his autobiography "To Return to All That" he gives an account of his youth and student days during which, with Arnold, they were constant visitors to Parknasilla where they dined and fished with the local parish priest Fr. Michael Walsh, the prototype for Alfred’s famous ballad "Father O’Flynn" and where he also found inspiration for "Trotting to the Fair" and "A Jug of Punch".

Alfred’s career as a songwriter, author, educationalist, and literary organser spans more than 60 years. He was educated first at Windermere College in Wales and won a classical scholarship to Trinity College Dublin, graduating with an Honours Classics, English, History and Language degree. His first employment was as a Home Office Clerk and private secretary in London and it was at this time in 1873 that his first book "Songs of Killarney" appeared. In 1882 "Songs of Old Ireland" appeared which contained "Father O’Flynn" and in 1892 "Songs of Erin". One morning on his way to work he crossed through St James’ Park and the words for "Father O’Flynn" came to him to the tune of "The Top of Cork Road" and on arriving at his office he was able to jot them down. However he had parted with his musical rights to the publisher of his songs for £80 and he used to say that for his song "Father O’Flynn" he had received only £ 1-12-0, his original fee when it was published in the Spectator, although it made a fortune for the publisher and also for his friend Sir Charles Villers Stanford as composer. Robert afterwards recalled in his autobiography "Goodbye to All That" that his father once impressed upon him almost religiously never to sell for a sum down the complete rights of any work of his whatsoever.

After 6 years in the Home Office Graves became an Insnector of Erwdish Schools arid served successfully in Manchester, Huddersfield and for many years in Taunton. In 1895 he was appointed to the London Southwark district where he founded the educational councils in several boroughs.

He made his work as a literary humorist with contributions to Punch, with which his younger brother Charles was closely associated, but his main literary reputation was as a poet of Irish nature and country life and as an essayist on Irish musical and literary subjects. He was a leading figure in the London Irish Literary Society founded by Yeats and Douglas Hyde in 1891 of which he was twice president and George Bernard Shaw was a constant visitor to his home "Red Branch House" at Wimbledon.

His Celtic Psaltery (1917) rendered with success the spirit to the early Irish Christian poetry.

He took a leading part in the Pan-Celtic movement and was the main organiser and another of the books of the Harlech Historical pageants of 1920, 1922 and 1927 (elected Bard slide of costume). In all his last book was "The pageant of St. Patrick". He published six volumes of poems, nine anthologies, sixteen song books, four plays, a collection of essays, a book on school management, a fairy book, and an autobiography.

In 1910 Graves retired from the school inspectorateship but he remained active in the educational word as a Chairman of the representative managers London County Council from 1911 until 1919. He especially promoted the supply of playing fields for children in the urban London areas and he promoted the educational use of cinema in schools.

His holiday home for many years and his retreat in retirement was at Harlech in Wales where he names his house "Erinfa" or "Facing towards Erin" Here he wrote his autobiography "To Return to All That" taking issue with Roberts version of many family matters. His son’s autobiography was written at the age of thirty-three while his appeared at the age of eighty three in which he remarked "The publication of this volume is perhaps not premature and modern critics, who encourage youngsters to write off their lives at thirty-three, may even thank me fifty years too late".

He had married as his second wife Amalie von Ranke great niece of Leopold whom his aunt Clarissa had married many years earlier. He had in all 10 children, six of whom also wrote books.

Alfred Perceval’s younger brother Arnold is the reason for the decision to include a special feature on Robert Graves in this Shaw Summer School, because it was Arnold Graves who more than anyone else should be credited with the foundation of the City of Dublin Technical Schools at Kevin Street on October 10th 1887.

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In Trinity he was captain of the University Football team for part of 1867-68, Dobbs having left for India, played for Ireland at cricket from 1865 to .1868, and won the University hurdle races in the same years. He was also the Trinity pole vaulting champion at this time, and rowed with the University from its boathouse at Ringsend.

In 1866 his father became Bishop of Limerick and Arnold aged 19 years and Alfred aged 20 years were able to take rooms in Trinity. Alfred describes some of the Town and Gown rows which took place between the students and certain rowdy young citizens of Dublin, and when the police rode in the front gate of Trinity to break them up, the opposing forces usually combined and turned on the police.

From 1872 to 1879 Arnold practised at the Bar, whereupon he was appointed Secretary to the Commissioners of Education for Endowed Schools. seven years For the next he held this position and noted the many school endowments that included a part application to technical education but which were never so applied. These he later published as Secretary of the Technical Education Association of Ireland on foot of which these schools were encouraged to introduce science or techica1 programmes to the curriculum. At this time “technical" referred especially to science as well as trade and handicraft subjects.

He initiated the Dublin Artizans Exhibition. From Belfast to Cork applications for space to exhibit came in. The Exhibition opened on June 24 1885 and attracted an weekly attendance of over 10,000 for the four months until it closed on November 8th. It had been a huge success and had “initiated an amalgamated action among the scattered trades in Dublin”.

Dublin United Trades Council 1886

This led to two direct consequences for both of which Arnold Graves was responsible. Firstly arising from their experience of the Exhibition the trades bodies formed the Dublin United Trades Council in 1886 and Arnold Graves was made an honorary member.

Kevin Street Technical Schools 1887

Secondly through his skilful and persistent organisation Dublin Corporation agreed to support the foundation of a technical school at Kevin Street which opened in October 1887. He immediately set about firstly ensuring the success of Kevin Street and at the same time began the task of spreading schools across the whole country.

The passing of the first Technical Instruction Act in 1889 which was extended to Ireland, gave an impetus to Arnold Graves and he persuaded Pembroke Town Council to raise a 1d rate in support of a technical school at Ringsend which opened in October 1893. He was responsible a little later for the technical schools at Limerick and Galway.

Technical Education Association of Ireland 1893 - 1903

In 1893 also Arnold Graves formed the Technical Education Association of Ireland of which such diverse persons as Edward Henry Carson Q.C. and the Superior General of the Christian Brothers were members. This Association began a campaign for a separate Irish Government department, public meeting, and submissions to govermnent, and through co-operation with Horace Plunkett the Department of Agriculture and Technical Instructions Act was passed in 1899 establishing a system of schools under the new local authorities which since 1898 had replaced the Grand Juries. By 1902 every local authority in the country had adopted the Act and raised a rate for technical education.

When the Board of Governors of the Kevin Street Schools was replaced by the City of Dublin Technical Instruction Committee under the D.A.T.I. Act of 1900, having resigned his position of Secretary to the Board, Arnold Graves was appointed a member of the new Committee by special resolution of Dublin Corporation, until 1908. By this time he was 60 years of age.

Arnold’s versatility may be seen from the range of family, educational, spoils, and literary activities which engaged him. He had kept up his interest in sport from his student and with Vere Goold, the Irish Lawn Tennis Champion, as partner for two years became the best tennis set of their day. He was also a regular golfing partner of Sir Horace Plunkett.

He also became an accomplished writer, first as a co-author with his brothers Charles and Alfred of two books of satirical verse about politics, “The Blarney Ballads” and “The Green above the Red”, but both Arnold and Alfred were precluded by the nature of their jobs, (Arnold as Secretary to the Irish Charity Commissioners and Alfred as an English School Inspector) from putting their names to political writings.

He was individually the author of six books. Arnold retired in 1918 at the age of 70 years of age but some years before the Lord Lieutenant, Lord Aberdeen, had put forward his name for a knighthood. 1915 and Lord Wimborne replaced him. However, the Earl of Aberdeen left office in Lord Wimborne’s private Secretary told Arnold Graves that Lord Wimborne had given the “go-by” to Lord Aberdeen’s list and Arnild Graves passed into forgotten history until recent years when the researches of my colleagues the late Michael Clume, Dr. Aine Hyland, and myself unearthed his career.

Arnold Graves, on retirement, turned again to writing and in years, 1925 at the age of 78 and now living in England, had a rare memoir of his personal beliefs and philosophy, entitled “Healthy, Wealthy and Wise” published by Methuin. Describing it as “a book about happiness” he reviewed the course of life under three main headings, Youth, Manhood, and Old Age.

In part III: Old Age he says:

“A whole holiday with nothing in the world to do for the rest of one’s life is a curse instead of a blessing to an active minded man, and his one chance of escape from unutterable boredom and an early death is to have a parergon - something which will fill the gap in his life, something to take him out of himself, to occupy his thoughts, and prevent his brain from feeding on itself’.

Arnold Graves died on May 24th 1930 in his 83rd year after a lifetime of service to education, and in particular technical education. He had gained optimism and wisdom even if fame eluded him.

Charles Larcom Graves (1856 - 1944) was a prolific writer and journalist. He was educateed at Oxford and became assistand editor of the Spectator from 1899 to 1917 He was also one of "Punch’s" merry men from 1902 to 1936, when he retired. His 16 publications include "Mr. Punch’s History of the Great War"(19 19) and a 4 volume work "Punch’s History of Modern England" 1921 and 1922. He also wrote a biography of Alexander Macmillan the famous publisher, and books on music. He has, a contemporary wrote, a long list of books both grave and gay to his credit and he was also credited with being a brilliant writer of humourous verse. Although he had left Ireland as a young man many of his family still lived in Dublin and he was a constant visitor. In 1915 Talbot Press, Dublin, published his book "Humours of Irish Life" being an anthology of humorous Irish writing, including that of Charles Lever, Somerville and Ross etc., although not including, for instance George Bernard Shaw. A reviewer in tudies noted its omissions but concluded "In particular we would recommend it to those in search of "Readings" for the winter evenings, they will find therein a store of excellent material for this purpose.

Sir Robert Windham Graves was a diplomat and writer. Born at Parknasilla in 1858 he was educated at Marlborough and became a student interpreter in Constantinople in 1879 and entered the foreign Levant consular He served in many capacities in the Levant countries from Egypt to Kurdistan. He was Financial Advisor and Head of the American Greek section British High Commission in Constantinople in 1919 and retired on pension in 1922. He acted for the Greek Government in a number of capacities until 1930. He published "Storm Centres of the Near East - Personal Memories 1879 - 1929" in 1933, a year before his death and indeed his experience would be greatly appreciated in today’s political world in this reion. Ida Graves later wife of Admiral Sir Richard Poore was born in 1859 and wrote a number of books: "An Admiral’s Wife in the Making", "Recollections of an Admiral’s Wife", and "Harbour Lights".

In "An Admiral’s Wife in the Making" she recalled her upbringing and early life in Dublin Castle, Parknasilla, and Limerick where her father became bishop in 1866.

Major Philip Perceval Graves, eldest son of Alfred Perceval and Jane Cooper of Cooper’s Hill, Limerick was educated at Haileybury and Oxford and became a Journalist and author. He was the London Times correspondent at Constantinople 1908 - 1914, served in the army 1915-19 in the Middle East and then returned to the Times until his retirement in 1946. He contributed to the exposure of the "Protocols of the Elders of Zion" as forgeries. From 1919 he served as Times correspondent, first in Ireland and knew Collins, Cosgrave and the various Irish leaders and was closely involved in reporting events in this critical period of recent Irish history. He later worked for the Times in India, the Levant and the Balkans and finally returned to The london Offlce. Philp Graves was The author of many scholatly books dealing mainly with the problems of Europe and the Near East. His most monumental work was a 21 volume history of the 1939 - 45 war, written volume by volume as the war progressed. He received the Legion d’Honour (Chevalier) and the Crown of Italy.

His book on Palestine "The Land of Three Faiths" was followed by other publications including the Edited Memoirs of King Abdullah of Transjordan in 1950, and several scientific and historical papers.

During his many travels Philip Graves developed a keen interest in entomology, particularly in regard to lepidoptera. The writer has no knowledge of the whereabouts of his early collections, but he is know to have collected butterflies in the Near East, including Palestine, Cyprus, Bulgaria and Egypt, also in England. Contributions from his pen appeared from time to time in the entomological papers. His other interests included Celtic antiquities and fishing. He was a member of the Royal Irish Academy.

It was not until he retired in 1945, to Ballylickey near Bantry, in Co. Cork, that he was able to give up a great deal of his time to entomology. Here he made a study of the Irish butterflies, being especially interested in the local sub-species.

He restored Ballylickey House as a hotel and his son George now runs Ballylickey Manor House Hotel. Richard Massie Graves C.B.E. (1880 - 1960) was also educated at Haileybury and Oxford and entered the Levant Consular Service in 1903 and served in Egypt, Palestine, Tangiers and elsewhere. He was the last Mayor of Jerusalem and held many high offices.

His publications include "Experiment in Anarchy" also "Singing for Amateurs" and various translations. At first I thought the titles of his first two books were one, "Experiment in Anarchy: Singing for Amaieurs" but in fact they are books of quite disparate subject matters.

Clarissa, b. 1892, became a poet and artist, publishing one volume of poetry "Seven Days and other Poems" which Robert admired. Next, to Robert von Ranke, the subject of this morning’s session. I am not qualified to speak on his writings so I only wish to look at his time in Ireland on three occasions, first as a soldier in Limerick with his battalion of the Royal Welsh Fusiliers after the Great War, later in 1928 when he briefly visited a writer colleague in Sligo and lastly when he returned as a seer to lecture and read his poetry in Dublin and Cork in 1975.

In January 1919, after the war, Robert travelled to Limerick to join his regiment to arrange demobilisation. Limerick, he said in a letter to his father, was to him native air and he heard great stories of his grandfather, the bishop. The city however was not always in a mood of friendliness as it was a Sinn Fein stronghold and he wrote to a friend that he was tired of having "mud and stones thrown at my back in O’Connell Street by my fellow countrymen who mistake me for the brutal invader", though he added in his autobiography "with little ill will": Yet, he says:

"when I was detailed to take out a search-party in a neighbouring village for concealed rifles I asked the adjutant to find a substitute; I said that I was an Irishman and did not wish to be mixed up in Irish politics.

That January I played my last game of rugger: as full-back for the battalion against Limerick City. We were all crocks and our opponents seemed bent on showing what fine fighting material England had lost by withholding Home Rule. How jovially they jumped on me, and rubbed my face in the mud!"

He stayed one night at Cooper’s Hill but woke up with a chill from damp sheets. With his lungs in their present stated, there was a high risk that influenza would kill him; and Robert, who had seen enough of the inside of military hospitals, betan desperately wanting to return to Nancy’s care and protection. When he arrived back at the barracks he found that all demobilisation was about to be stopped because of the political troubles; but by a lucky chance his own demobilisation telegram had finally come through from the War Office, and provided he was on the 6.15 train that evening, he would be able to leave Ireland just in time. His papers had already been made out; and all that he needed was the ColOnel’s signature to a statement that he had handled no company moneys for the last six months; together with the secret code-marks which could only be supplied by the battalion demobilisation officer.

But then the Adjutant, reckoned by Robert to be ‘hand-in-glove’ with the demobilisation officer, reminded him of a promise to help with some battalion theatricals, and made it clear that he would prevent Robert from leaving. In the circumstances, Robert ‘decided to make a run for its’. Obtaining the code-marks was clearly impossible; but he managed at the last moment to secure the Colonel’s signature - something which would be enough to save him from a charge of outright desertion - and he ‘tumbled into’ the 6.15 train as it was moving out of Limerick station.

When Robert reached London he managed to commandeer the only available taxi at Paddington - there was a strike on the underground, and so were in short supply and he very kindly shared it with another officer and his wife. - They were delighted, and the officer asked Robert whether he could return the favour in any way He certainly could! By an amazing coincidence he turned out to be the Cork District Demobilisation Officer, and he was bame to complete Robert's papers for him.

In 1928 he briefly visited Geoffrey Phibbs in Sligo in connection with his writing but forty five years later in 1973 when invited by Constantine Fitzgibbon to accept election to the Irish Academy of Letters he replied (as quoted in Miranda Seymour’s biography):

"The things that happen when one reaches the late Seventies! You could have knocked me down with a couple of feathers, left and right, when the invitation came through you for the Irish Honour, which it would be ungracious to decline.

I have not been in Ireland apart from a single day’s punitive visit to Sligo since I went there disguised as a Captain in the Royal Welch Fusileers in 1918. So please tell them that I will gladly come next year in the Spring or Summer."

He came in May 1975, first to University College Cork for a poetry reading, and student seminar on his methods of work which he said were revision and discipline. His wit and grace earned him a warm reception and the proceedings were filmed by R.T.E. for a television programme to be shown later. He then travelled to Dublin where he read and sang a selection of his poems and songs including Father O’Flynn at the Peacock Theatre, attended by President Cearbhall O'Dalaigh. He told his audience that he considered himself an Irishman as were his father and grandfather before him. "I have been away from this country for too long," he said.

Rosaleen, was a poet, musician and medical doctor. She published a number of collections of poetry, "Nightsounds" and others. I wish to keep Charles Patrick until last, so I pass now to John harks von Ranke Graves and his son Richard Perceval Graves. Like Robert, John was educated at Copthorne, Charterhouse and St. John’s College Oxford and became a teacher. then worked for the Oxford Education Authority and finally established his own preparatory school in Berkshire.

His son, Richard Perceval, who now lives in Co. Cork is a professional writer, mainly of biographies which include a three volume biography of his uncle Robert Graves, and ones of Lawrence of Arabia, A.E. Housman and others.

He is a noted lecturer and assisted me in the research for this paper.

Charles Patrick Graves (1899 - 1971) was educated at Charterhouse and St. John’s College. Oxford and became a journalist and writer. He worked on the Sunday Express, Daily Mail and many other newspapers. He published 46 books in all including the Thin Blue Line or Adventures in the RAF and listed his hobbies as golf and gin rummy.

Two of his books are of special interest, his "Ireland Revisited" (1949) and his autobiography "The Bad Old Days" (1951).

In Ireland Revisited he takes the reader on an informative and humorous tour of Ireland of which we have only time for a few of his many pictorial inclusions of this late 1940’s record of Irish Life (in his own words):

  • a) The Fairy Glen of Glendalough, with the ancient round tower of St. Kevin
  • b) O’Connell Street, with Nelson’s Pillar still standing
  • c) Part of the Guinness Navy on the Liffey
  • e) Tom Moore’s Tree at the Meeting of the Waters
  • f) Hurling at Croke Park, Dublin
  • g) Mizen Head’s Grandeur
  • h) My father’s home - Parknasilla of the Palm Trees
  • i) The Last of the Claddagh
  • j) Swan Estuary at Galway

He begins his autobiography:

"Those were the days, the Bad Old Days - primarily of large families, but also of could look the dollar in the eye without flinching or wincing, when cigarettes were lid, for 20 and beef was unrationed and champagne was 5s. a bottle"

and he concludes it as follows:

"What is happiness? I did not yet know. But I had already learnt that to have any chance of success in life one must be able to ‘take it’; that tact can be worth all the genius in the world; that unless you specialise you will never make more than £800 a year; that it is madness to disbelieve in luck and the cycles of luck; that you have to spend money to make money; that you must at all costs keep your youthful enthusiasms; that the two greatest influences in a man’s life are his mother and his wife; that marriage will either make you or break you, because it can never leave you the same".

The motto of the Graves family is "Aquila non captat muscas", "The eagle does not stoop to capture flies". No, the Graves’ s have conquered the humanitarian arts of theology and law, medicine and mathematics, poetry and literature. They have been a great Anglo-irish family who have contributed much to Ireland, and whose sons and daughters still enjoy and enrich Irish life.

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Bantry Bay
Co. Cork
Ireland
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